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From: Dr. Noel Swanson MD,
Consultant Child Psychiatrist
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Subject: Solving your child's behavior problems

Noel Swanson Tell me, how would it be if, by , you could know exactly how to stop your child's bad behaviors and transform then into good behavior instead?  Would that make life a bit less stressed?  Maybe it would even seem as if some kind of miracle had occurred?

Well, read on and I will show you just how you could achieve this transformation in your own family, with your own children, in an amazingly short time.  The same transformation, in fact, that Bob Densley is still enjoying:

"I didn't think anything would work with my little 7 y.o. girl but the very first time I tried my new found approach it really did work! I haven't looked back since."  
Bob Densley, Kent

But first, let me introduce myself.

My name is Dr. Noel Swanson.  I am a fully qualified medical doctor and a consultant child psychiatrist.   Over the past 20 years I have worked with literally thousands of families in both North America and England.   And they all want the same thing:

More FUN and LESS STRESS as a family. 

Some of them have had children with major disabilities or disorders - like learning disabilities, ADHD, Asperger's syndrome, Autism, and Obsessive Compulsive disorders (in fact, just 5 minutes ago I was consulting with just such a family).

Others are simply tearing their hair out about their children's oppositional and defiant behaviours - kids that think they own the world. Kids who throw temper tantrums, sass back at their parents, beat up their siblings, refuse to do as they are told... kids who think only of themselves, and want everything NOW!

Many of these parents feel completely hopeless.  They have read all the books, tried all the advice, and yet their kids just seem to get worse instead of better.   Sometimes it gets so bad, they even start to think about  putting their children into care, as they just cannot cope.  As parents, they feel like complete failures.  Maybe you have felt like that at times too?

So they come to me to see if I can help.

Fortunately I can.

Now don't get me wrong.  I have no magic wand (that's what some parents want).   I cannot suddenly make the ADHD or Autism go away.  I wish I could.  But what I can do is to help them, and you, to become much more confident and much less stressed.  Using the techniques I have developed over the past 20 years you can rapidly put yourself back in control of your family.  As a result, the shouting, threatening, and tantrums will decrease, and the helpful, polite, and good behaviours will increase.  Life will start to become fun again.  That's what you want, isn't it?

Something I discovered.

In over 20 years of medical practice I have come to realise two things: 

The first is that there is a group of parents who think I can fix their child for them.  These people seem to think that they can just bring their little brat to me and that somehow I will turn him into a bright, friendly, polite, charming little angel!  Without them doing anything different themselves!  They are easy to recognise, as they usually sound like this:   "Why should we have to change what we are doing just for him?  He needs a good hiding, is what he needs...  Why should we have to put up with the things he does??"

Then, if I dare to make any suggestions, it's "Oh, we couldn't do that... No, that would never work... "  Classic cases of excusitis!   I am sure you are not like that, but if you are, then I am sorry to disappoint you.   I can give you the knowledge you need to transform your family.  But you are the one who is going to have to do it.

The second thing I discovered was that there are some very simple, very basic principles that can be learned by anyone, and used in any family situation.  Over time I worked these principles into a system that any parent can use to improve their children's behaviours and bring more fun and happiness into the family. 

In fact, these techniques as so powerful that 100% of parents who have used them have seen a dramatic improvement in their child's behaviors.

That's a pretty wild claim, isn't it?  So let me qualify that briefly.   These techniques work.  There is no question about that.  But you have to use them.  Unfortunately, I do see countless parents who are looking for that magical fix.  They don't want to do anything different; they don't want to learn new ways of doing things at home.  They just want to carry on doing and being the same.  What they want is for me to fix their little Johnny for them!  In every case that parents have claimed that the system does not work, I have found out that they have not applied it properly.  Every time.

Each time I teach someone these principles I am amazed that no one has taught them this stuff before.  Remember, before they ever get a referral to see me, a hospital consultant, they will have already seen several professionals before - doctors, teachers, nurses, health visitors, counsellors, child guidance clinics and so on. Yet no-one is telling them what they need to know.   Perhaps you have discovered that too?  So many times I have had parents say, "I've seen dozens of people but in half an hour I have learnt more from you than any of these other people." 

Quite honestly, it ought to be taught in school, it's that simple and that powerful.

I can only see one family at a time.

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It takes me two hours to explain my system to parents.  In many cases that is all they need to immediately make changes at home that produce results.   But I can only see one family at a time.  And there are hundreds, thousands, even hundreds of thousands of parents who are desperately looking for answers.  I can't possibly meet with them all.  I wish I could.

So I decided to put my system into a manual.  That way people can read it at their leisure.  This gives them time to digest it.  They can try things out and then refer back to it if the results weren't what they expected.  And then, if they do come to me for a consultation, I don't have to spend 2 hours going over the basics with them.  It saves me time, it saves them time, and it means I can help a lot more people.  People like you, in fact.

That manual is called The GOOD CHILD Guide, and it has been hailed with critical acclaim as you can see from some of the genuine testimonials and reviews quoted here..  You can order it online, as an ebook, for immediate download simply by clicking here.

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"I read it from cover to cover!  Have already implemented much of the content and major improvement has resulted."
Jackie O., Hampshire.

"The funniest book I have read."  
Steve Cockerill, www.roostersailing.com

Hmm, that's an unusual testimonial - but, you know what?   Learning how to kick out stress and bring fun back into your family life need not be boring and hard work!

So, what does it take raise children that are polite, respectful, helpful and cheerful?

What do you do, for example, in this situation:

Mom versus Child - who will win?

"Keith, put on your coat before you go out", instructs Mum.

"I don't need a coat", Keith replies.

"Yes you do, it's cold out, and it might rain." Mum says.

"So?" he retorts.

"So. You'll catch a cold. Now get your coat on. Quickly, it's late."

"I'm not putting a coat on. I don't need it."

And on it goes. Ever been there? This scene can be played out in countless variations: maybe about doing the dishes, taking the dog for a walk, finishing homework, or putting the toys away. Often it is about things that we want children to do, i.e. good behaviours that they need to start. But it can just as easily be about bad behaviours that we want them to stop. These might be things the child is doing right now, such as drawing on the wall, bouncing on the sofa, or throwing a major temper tantrum.

Or they might be behaviours that they are just about to do, such as going out when you have told them to stay in.

The pattern is the same in each case: the parent wants something, the child does not. It is a straight conflict. Who will win? Who is the more powerful? What do you do?

Or what about this one:

Bedtime? Ha! What bedtime?

It's time for bed.  Or at least it is supposed to be.  But there seem to be countless requests such as "one more chapter", or "a glass of water please?", or "I'm hungry", "I need to go to the toilet", "I forgot to brush my teeth", and, of course, the best one of them all, "I'm scared!"  The more they go on, the more frustrated and harassed you become.

Finally you succeed. You sit down to read the paper. Five minutes later you hear footsteps coming down the stairs.

"What now?", you say.

"I've lost my teddy."

"Honestly, can't I have any time to myself? I've already spent an hour getting you to bed, and now you're down here wanting me to find your teddy bear. Whatever next? Do you think..."

Oh dear. Not a good scene.  So what is the solution?

One Fundamental Principle

Surprisingly, there is just one fundamental underlying principle that is the key to success.  Understand this single concept and you will be able to work out everything else from it.  Not only will you have the key to managing your children's behaviour but, as Bob Densley (see the quote above) said, it will help you to understand your own and everyone else's behaviours too.

So what is it?  Simply this: Why do Children Do What they Do?   Once you understand that, (the answer is on page 11) you are well on your way to success.

Of course, there is still the question of how to apply that to your children in your home.  That is what the rest of the manual will teach you.

In just 2 hours you will learn:
  • The exact reasons why children do what they do - and what you can do to change it - (p11).
  • The critical error most parents make when trying to stop bad behaviours (p19).   Get this wrong (and most people do) and the behaviours will get worse instead of better.
  • How understanding traffic police and "one-armed bandits" will help (p13).  You need to be more like the first and less like the second if you want any hope of success.
  • Manipulation - understand the secret ingredient to this, and it will help you deal with your kids, your partner, even your boss and in-laws! - (p35).  You need never be manipulated again.
  • A powerful technique that will eliminate whining, temper tantrums, and other annoying behaviours (p58).  Use this at home, at your friend's, even when out shopping.  It works like magic.
  • How to deal with lying, stealing, and other more serious "crimes" (p73).
  • The two key elements to teaching responsibility (p88).  Miss out either one of these and children will never learn it.
  • How to analyse  any specific behavioural problem and design a solution for it (p110).
  • How to get your children to go to bed - and stay in it! (p123).
  • Behavioral strategies for children with ADHD, Asperger's syndrome and other specific difficulties. (129). No, they won't make the problem go away - but they will make life much easier for all of you.
  • How to deal with kids who are bored - and it won't cost you a penny! (p128).
  • How to get out of punishment mode and back into family FUN. (p40).

 

Is it working, what you are doing now?

Or could life be better for you?  Every parent I know has times when they get frustrated with their children's behaviours.  Almost all of them have, as a result, found themselves threatening, bribing, or shouting at their kids to get them to do as they are told.  That is not much fun, is it?  In just 2 hours you can know the secret to changing all of that.  It's all in the book. 

So let me ask you, how much is your children's future worth?  What would you be prepared to pay to give them the best possible start in life?  Or, let me put it another way.  How much do you spend each month on little things - sweets, burgers, videos, whatever, - just to make life easier, even though you know they don't do your kids any good? Wouldn't it be better to do things the right way?  And then you won't have to bribe them with candies!

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At last, a really useful guide for us struggling parents of (not such) little angels! It took me just about 2 hours to read the book and I learned more about my child's behaviour (and mine for that matter) and how to control it than I thought possible. It provides an easily understandable (and quite funny) explanation of why children do what they do and how best to deal with their bad behaviour. I didn't think anything would work with my little 7 y.o. girl but the very first time I tried my new found approach it really did work! I haven't looked back since. So, if you have kids between about 5 to 12 years old, even if they behave very well, you must buy this book! Thank you Dr. Swanson!     Bob Densley, Kent

At just $37 for immediate download The GOOD CHILD Guide is probably the best possible investment you can make in your family's future.  Whether you have the worst kids in town, or you just want the be the very best parent in town, The GOOD CHILD Guide will give you the tools you need to make life better.  But don't just take my word for it. Test it out.   Try it.  If you don't see a dramatic improvement within a few weeks, then just write or email me and I will give you a full refund, no questions asked.   Click on the button now to start having more fun as a family... 

When you do, you will be taken first to the order page and then, after that you will be asked to enter either your credit card or PayPal details.  Once those are confirmed, you will be able to download the ebook, and you can immediately get started on making family life better.  Click here now for a more peaceful, happy, family:

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"What? No Buy-today-and-get-it-half-price offer?" you might be asking.   Look, I'm not going to insult your intelligence with fancy sales gimmicks.   You know that peace and quiet are worth far more to you than a measly $37.   You also know that the longer you put off doing something about it, the longer your misery continues.  So the only question that remains is whether The GOOD CHILD Guide will bring you that peace and quiet.  And the only way you will know that it does, is if you try it.

Maybe you are nervous or hesitant about trying something new.  Maybe you are sceptical that anything can help your situation.  I assure you that my system will work, even for you, whatever the age of your children, whatever country you live in.  But to make it absolutely risk free for you to try it, today, I offer you my personal guarantee:

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I know The GOOD CHILD Guide works.  I have tested it and proven it with hundreds of families.   But, for whatever reason, some people just don't seem to be able to put the principles into practice.  So, the only way you will know if it will work for you, is to try it for yourself.

For this reason I want to give you a full 3 months to read it, try it and use itLong before then you should be enjoying dramatic improvements in your children's behaviours and having more fun and less stress as a familyIf you are not, then simply write or email me and I'll refund 100% of your investment on the spot, with no further questions asked, and no commitments, obligations, expectations or hard feelings on my part...  You don't even have to send anything back!  The only thing I ask of you is that you act in good faith and give the The GOOD CHILD Guide a fair try. 

Naturally your statutory rights are not affected.

You see, you really do have nothing to lose, and everything to gainOrder now - don't put it off another day - and start transforming the future for yourself and your loved ones.    And then, please, let me know how you get on!

Yours warmly,

Dr. Noel Swanson

Noel Swanson, M.D.

P.S.  One thing I forgot to mention.  Like you, I am a parent.  And, like you, my kids love to act up at times.  No, they're not total angels all the time.  In fact, the elder (now 16) has both Tourette's and Asperger's syndromes, so he has had his challenges.   But that is another reason why I was motivated to put together these techniques - I needed something that would work for my own family.  So I do practice what I preach.   And it does work.  I urge you, for the sake of your children, and for your own sanity, to download this ebook now.  Click here now. You won't regret it.

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